What I'm Not Buying this Weekend

by Margo on April 11, 2009

In attempt to recapture the sublime pleasures of shopping therapy, most of which has been been lost in the suffering global economy, I share with you:

“What I’m Not Buying this Weekend.”


First Lusted after @:
Anthropologie store in Stony Point Fashion Park in Richmond, Va.when I was serving as fashion adviser to 13 year old daughter with birthday money burning a hole in her pocket

Virtually Superior Because: I was only required to mentally try on dress with potentially unflattering horizontal stripes. It looked great!


Meaningless Details:
Caranday Dress $178

Palladium Peep Toe Pumps $148


Virtually Saved: $416

How about you? What aren’t you buying this weekend?

(Next Saturday I’ll be adding Mr. Linky in case you want to join me in this effort that I hope will partially fill the hole left behind in our formerly shopping-oriented lives. I believe you may find it to be superior to mere window shopping. And if you fall off the wagon and literally buy something, not to worry. Tell us about that too, so others can catch a bit of the thrill while you were at it. And remember, you’re helping the economy!)

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{ 36 comments }

1 princessparkle April 11, 2009 at 3:24 pm

Mom, you’re so funny! I’ll pretend you’re wearing all of that stuff- it’s almost as fun as buying them! Very good idea!

2 Paula aka. Zani April 11, 2009 at 3:52 pm

Wow.. not sure I could have passed up Nearly Needlepoint Satchel for $90.. even with today’s economy. I really like that! =]

3 Molly April 11, 2009 at 3:58 pm

Such a clever idea!!!

4 Fiona April 11, 2009 at 4:05 pm

OK, this is a game I could totally play – especially if I can look virtually cute in some seriously impractical clothing!

5 Hit 40 April 11, 2009 at 4:37 pm

Cute post!!! Children are such money drains! but worth it. I am trying to save my $$$ for excellent trips!

6 Hit 40 April 11, 2009 at 5:39 pm

Excellent! That’s for following!! I shall stalk you too!

7 WhisperingWriter April 11, 2009 at 5:39 pm

This is a great idea. I will definately do it next week. I’m on a strict budget now that we got the new car so this will be helpful.

8 Margo April 11, 2009 at 5:43 pm

ps, thanks! I’m a huge fan of your humor and ideas as well. Love your new blog :)

Paula aka Zani, I’m having a bit of pass up remorse myself over that bag.

Molly, thanks! Are you still teaching? are you blogging again?

Fiona, I had a feeling you’d grasp the vision.

Hit40, excellent trips are my favorite thing in the world… even more than Anthropologie

WhisperingWriter, I feel for you with the new car. Whenever I get something big like a car or a sofa, I want new clothes to go with it :)

April 11, 2009 1:42 PM

9 lilaphase April 11, 2009 at 6:11 pm

If I’m not buying it anyway, now I can not buy a size smaller, and thus, virtually lose weight, too – right?

10 Speedcat Hollydale April 11, 2009 at 7:57 pm

Buying stuff …. ohhhh shoot!

I have had my hours cut at work, and have been living bare bones for a while now. I do not like it.

Ha haaaaaaaaa !!!!!!!!!!

I have lots of golf clubs, clothes on my wish list, but as I always “TRY” to be, I am happy with what I have. ((mostly))

Happy Easter weekend from SpeedyCat :-)

peep peep !!

11 phd in yogurtry April 11, 2009 at 8:05 pm

So funny! You have great taste in your non-purchases!

12 The Girl Next Door April 11, 2009 at 10:37 pm

Oh this is an awesome idea! Retail therapy without the Morning-after regrets. love it!

13 Sparky ♥ ∞ April 12, 2009 at 12:30 am

That is so funny. Ok, I’m not buying that Caribbean Island I’ve wanted for so long! Now living on my own island would be therapy! LOL :o )

14 Betsy April 12, 2009 at 1:25 am

Hi…how nice to see your little profile picture on my sidebar!

Love Anthropologie…I swoon over the clothes and then faint at the pricetags! ha-ha!

Great to meet you…I’ll be back!

15 Wendy April 12, 2009 at 5:08 am

What a great and fun idea!

16 Lydia April 12, 2009 at 7:21 am

I love that little dress!
I’m not buying Hot-cross Buns for Easter brunch because the grocery stores were all out of them and I didn’t think to place an order with the bakery downtown.

17 ANovelMenagerie April 12, 2009 at 8:33 am

An award is awaiting you at A Novel Menagerie.com in the Sunday Salon post.

18 Margo April 12, 2009 at 11:54 am

Lilaphase, in this land, we are all the same size we were in high school (or whenever :)

speedcat, recently I think we all appreciate what we already have a little more. My husband always wants another golf club. It’s like me and shoes.

phd yogurtry, Thank you. I’m going to go lie down now and imagine myself in them.

GND, definitely fun and guilt free.

sparky, that’s so sad. Everyone should have their own island. It’s written in the constitution

Betsy, great to meet you too. It sounds like you have your hands full… 15 yr. old triplets? I look forward to hearing about it :)

Wendy, thanks, glad you like it :)

Lydia, now I just have to be careful I don’t become obsessed with a virtual dress. Enjoy your Easter sans the hot cross buns. I want one!

Sheri, thanks!!

19 LiLu April 12, 2009 at 4:38 pm

That purse is GORGEOUS. Now that I’ve seen it, I am “not” buying it either.

Le sigh.

20 Carl April 13, 2009 at 2:17 am

After I saw your note, I said to myself, “Peacock, that’s the nickname I call myself, just for one weekend, don’t go clothes shopping.” I was behaving very well until 2 PM Saturday afternoon because all I could think of was go shopping. And I did. Sigh… Peacock failed.

21 Artist Victoria O'Neill April 13, 2009 at 2:42 am

what a unique way to look at shopping.. this really impressed me…..and made me laugh of course!
a rule of thumb i’ve tried to use for my kids is that i’d rather pay for experiences than things..

22 Artist Victoria O'Neill April 13, 2009 at 2:42 am

what a unique way to look at shopping.. this really impressed me…..and made me laugh of course!
a rule of thumb i’ve tried to use for my kids is that i’d rather pay for experiences than things..

23 Margo April 13, 2009 at 3:13 am

Lilu, it will be fun carrying our twin purses virtually throughout the blogosphere. won’t it?

carl, may I call you peacock? I hope you had a great Easter and consumed lots of chocolate :)

victoria, that is a wonderful thing to teach your children. thanks for stopping by :)

24 MuseSwings April 13, 2009 at 4:12 am

You are a hoot! Buy them all tomorrow. Hope you had a delightful Easter and thandk you for stopping by this morning!

25 blueviolet@A Nut in a Nutshell April 13, 2009 at 10:17 am

Oh my gosh, you did save a bundle! I stopped even going into stores anymore to spare myself the pain.

26 Sass April 13, 2009 at 12:42 pm

I am NOT buying a new car because of the 0% for 60 months financing…

But I’m totally envisioning myself in one, and man…I look HOT!. ;)

Thanks for following my blog! I really do appreciate that!

27 Beth Niquette April 13, 2009 at 3:34 pm

Hahahaa…you made me laugh this morning. You have a wonderful gift with words. I so enjoyed your blog today. (grin)

28 Heather Cherry April 13, 2009 at 8:08 pm

I have to say I love this idea. Shopping is my drug of choice and I have been known to OD on Anthropologie, in particular, a time or two. You and Sparkle have great taste, BTW! Is it unhealthy that I’m already thinking of how fun it would be to photoshop virtual outfits onto myself like paper dolls?

29 Vic April 13, 2009 at 8:34 pm

I am so not-shopping!! It saves on all that time returning things this way!
That, and the fact that I can wear slinky jersey material AND horizontal stripes in virutal land make this a win/win.

30 Lola April 13, 2009 at 8:53 pm

I love these posts! What a great idea… Get Mr Linky up, I have a closet-ful of ideas to contribute! Ciao and thank you so much for stopping by my blog. Ciao

31 Margo April 14, 2009 at 12:18 am

MuseSwings, I bought them all, but when I opened my eyes I couldn’t find them! Hope you had a nice holiday.

blueviolet, Have I told you I had a great aunt named Violet? Going in the stores for real is always a bit risky. I’m going to one of my favorite stores for this Saturday’s post and I’m leaving the credit card in the freezer.

Sass, And you MUST have some sunglasses to match you and your cars hotness. I know just the pair.

Beth, Thanks so much! Glad you stopped by :)

Heather, I love that idea of playing digital paper dolls. If I could photoshop I’d definitely be doing that. BTW – I think I love the dress you’re wearing in your profile pic :)

Vic, and no losing the receipts! I’m even thinking of buying a BIKINI

Lola, I’m so glad you stopped by! I can’t wait to see what you will not buy :)

32 Heather Cherry April 14, 2009 at 2:10 am

Eh, who am I kidding? I don’t even HAVE Photoshop. I have Microsoft Paint. It would looky super sloppy but it still could be fun to do the paper doll thing.

Thank you! That’s actually a dress from the 30’s. It’s my favorite and I adore it to pieces.

Um. I can’t BELIEVE how articulate your daughter is. It’s almost obscene how mature she is, really.

33 Staci April 14, 2009 at 4:08 am

What I’m not buying…Where do I start? I’m not buying a car that doesn’t have paint peeling off it in sheets. I’m not buying a hair cut, even though this growing out mess is starting to resemble a mullet. I’m not buying every shoe that fits my size 5 foot in the Famous Footwear clearance section, even though the ongoing BOGO sale is calling my name. But in my mind I’m driving a fabulous convertible with hair that doesn’t go frizzy in the humidity and wind and wearing some really cute shoes with a backseat full of more of them. Money saved: more than I can count on my fingers and toes.

34 Margo April 14, 2009 at 12:13 pm

Heather Cherry, I think I’ll have enough fun with this without concerning ourselves with digital manipulation of ourselves. Thanks for befriending ps. She is truly a spicy and joyous creature to have around :) (apparently she thinks it’s pretty low that I comment so much on my own blog)

Staci, I wear a 5 1/2! It’s like torture. You are a great non-shopper. xxx ooo

35 SWC April 16, 2009 at 3:38 pm

You just put a name to what I have been doing with all of my time. Brilliant!

36 scriptoriumdenizen April 16, 2009 at 7:31 pm

so, with this virtual shopping I am declaring myself a size 8 (way, way small than my true size!)!! :)

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